okay - definitely time for an update!

Sorry it has been so long since I have posted anything substantial on here!

Medical
I promised a more detailed post about my healing so I will start with that.
During our Ladies' retreat at the beginning of June, our speaker had spoken alot about how she felt that God had wanted her to speak to us about how He WANTS us to be pain-free and healed of any illnesses, etc. And that we needed to really believe in the fact that God can not only heal us, but that He wants to heal us. That really hit home with me because I had really been struggling with the whole "healing thing" and I had come to the conclusion that if God had wanted to heal me, He could have done it before I was even diagnosed. It wasn't like we hadn't prayed enough times that God would heal my pain and take away all the symptoms I was dealing with. I had decided (on my own) that my quick diagnosis must have been God's answer to my prayers. So over the weekend, I spoke with a couple of my good friends about how I had thought that God didn't want to heal me, and that my diagnosis had been my answer to prayer. I then had some long talks with God, first off asking for His forgiveness for me not allowing Him to be able to show His power in my life. Fast forward to Tuesday, I somehow got gluten contamination and was quite sick and in ALOT of pain, pain I hadn't had since my biopsy and me completely cutting out gluten. Wednesday at bible study, the girls started talking to the guys about our retreat and how great it had been and what the speaker had spoken about. At the end of the night when we ask for prayer requests, I really felt God leading me to ask the group to pray for me for healing of my celiac disease. We then all came together in a circle in the middle of the room and they all laid hands on me and we started praying. At this point, I was still dealing with a lot of stomach pains from the day before and so as I prayed, I asked God to let me know that He was touching my body and healing me by taking away the pain in my stomach right then. There are two guys in our group who are quite the prayer warriors and between them and the women who were still pumped from retreat, it was quite the prayer circle! I don't know how long we prayed for, but somewhere in the middle I started to realize that the pain in my stomach was gone. At that point, I started crying and rejoicing out loud and thanking God for healing me. Well, that just got everyone pumped and we kept praying, thanking God for what He was doing in my body. That Friday, I had a cheeseburger with a wheat bun!! and had NO pain or symptoms at all! From that first bite, I just kept going, eating whatever I want, it has known been almost 8 weeks and I have been eating whatever I want with no pain or symptoms of celiac at all. Thursday the 19th of July, I finally went in and saw my family doctor to ask her to redo the blood work that first diagnosed me with celiac disease. She was reluctant and was quite open with me that she is not at all religious and while she believed that I thought I had been healed, I would be doing a lot of damage to my body if it wasn't the case. On Saturday, the 21st I went and did the blood tests and am now waiting for the results. I called my doctor's office today and they are not yet in, but if they aren't in by tomorrow, the receptionist will call and ask for the results over the phone. It is still quite exhilarating to be able to tell people that I no longer have celiac disease.

Ronel
This is one reason I haven't been posting lately ~ I really have no new news about our immigration process, except that Ronel has finally made contact with the DMP( Dr who can do his medical) and found out that it will cost him $200 US for his medical exam - this is the equivalent of $1500 Haitian dollars. This is money that neither of us have at this time, plus I need to have to $1500 Cdn for sending in with the immigration paperwork. My friends have been fabulous and we have been talking about doing some various fund raisers to raise money to get Ronel here. Calling Ronel has been hard because it is getting harder and harder to be okay with the fact that we are still not in the same country, and that for right now phone calls and memories are all we have, and a hope that one day - IN GOD'S TIMING - we will be together again, as husband and wife, living in the same country able to really start our live together. I spoke to Ronel on Sunday and found out that other than the medical exam, he is only waiting on one piece of paper - an archived copy of our marriage certificate. So, other than waiting for that paper, we are both just waiting for the funds so that we can get this immigration process started. Then comes more waiting! Filing isn't the end of the road, it is only another beginning - the beginning of a 6-18 month wait. I know that God can get our paperwork through the process quickly if that is His plan and I am learning daily that I CAN'T take control of this, I have to leave it all in God's hand. Not having control is hard for me, especially on something this big! I especially struggle with having no control over things like money! It is a daily prayer that gets me through each day without breaking down and bawling because my husband isn't here, but I also know and can hold on to the fact that I KNOW that God told both Ronel & I that we were to be together and that this time apart is not for forever. Being able to call and talk to Ronel is both a good and not so good thing... Good because I miss him like crazy and being able to hear his voice is better than nothing at all! Not so good because it makes it harder being away from him, and on "bad" days when I can hear the strain in his voice and hear how much he misses me, without him having to say a word, is some days more than I can handle on my own.

Oh, and I just looked and I have not yet shared that at Ronel's follow-up appointment for his gallstone, the doctors couldn't find anything! So this means that he will not have to have surgery! Thank you to anyone who was praying with us for this!!

Other
I was blessed at the beginning of July to house sit for a family in my church who went on a missions trip to Mexico with our church. They have two Korean home stay students and so needed someone to stay at the house and cook dinner for two students. I was completely blessed by the amount that they paid me for the two week stay and that was put into my "get Ronel here" fund! I will also be staying there next week while the family goes camping (but the students still have school) after I get home from my camping trip this weekend with most of the people from our bible study. We will be going to Kamloops and staying in the (huge) yard of Terri's aunt. I am excited because I met Terri's aunt last October when we all went up to stay at a B&B in Kamloops for our staff retreat and loved her and her family. The girls who are going will be heading up Thursday evening after work and then the boys will follow us on Friday evening after they all get off work.

I am looking forward to the first night being a girls' night and then a weekend of fun and lots of laughter!

Okay, off to bed now as I have a long day tomorrow at the lake with 40 children!! (and 3 other adults!)